"stevi, you need to stop playing around all the time & commit ," said sam .
i smiled .
yesterday i was chillin with some friends . my guy friend said, "i am done with girlfriends . its nothing but drama . imma just wait until im done with school and lookin for a wife" . i mean, he was loaded, but whatever lol . once again, i smiled .
relationships . im not going to act like they have absolutely no significance . when two people have a connection and want to be exclusive with one another then i can see why they would enter a relationship . but people love to cheat . lmao . what's the point of spiritually connecting with someone when they intend to stray anyway ? people use relays as an excuse to put ties on a person so no one can have em . however, if people treat their boyfriend/girlfriend like a trophy rather than a friend...they lose their sense of humanity for the others feelings .
i am a firm believer in honesty as the best policy . with time, you learn that honesty is a nasty pill to take...but a lie is one that you will probably choke on . ladies, if a guy tells you that he's not looking for a relationship ...and you are...then walk away. dont hang in there with hopes that he'll 'come around' & then have an attitude with him when he wont commit a year later . Being exclusive with someone is a big step and dont expect him to only mess with you unless you discuss it and agree to it (whether or not he'll have the integrity and character to stand by it is a whole new blog lol) . so basically, the moral of the story is .. communication, honesty & trust . try it ?
so, until i feel the need to deal with all of that ^ ...or come across a guy who can bring peace to my life rather than the drama ... ill just live a little & smile .
song to explain : be by myself by asher roth ft. cee-lo
Excellent post, and so true.
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