crossroads .

im often accused of being insensitive at times .
& i agree . there are times when i am cold . However, i believe i am justified in my attitude (most of the time) .

i have very little to no sympathy for people who will not take control of their lives . A lot of the times, we want to just ... see how things work out . Make a choice and see where it takes us, but thats my point . WE ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE ...even if it's only one . Who we date, who we spend our time with, what we spend our time doing, what we pursue in life is (for the most part) up to us . It may seem too simple, but i really believe some people want their lives to be more complicated, some kind of urban soap opera they can brag about to their friends .

well im not the one to call on with these moments . If you went on a date with a guy and he didnt call you back after a month, find a new guy . If your mom is pressuring you about something that you dont want to do , talk to her about it and come to a solution . If you hate being an engineering major, stick it out or change it . two choices . Im not saying that there are always "clear" answers, but im saying that you have choices . Sometimes there are not right and wrong, but simply paths that lead you to different outcomes ... take control of your life and CHOOSE one . dwelling for weeks on a subject does not make you any less stressed ... make a choice . If it's the wrong one, you have become that much wiser .

life is too short to worry about dumb stuff . make choices so you can continue to live life . make choices so you can love one another . if you spend all your time ...rattling your mind about miniscule decisions, you never have time to appreciate the place in your life that you reside. life is simply too short .

have a ... day .

at the end of the day, nothing matters that much .
i was thinking [like always] & i realized that people care too much about things that will be irrelevant later . people are worried about having no money today, but they know theyre gunna get summore in a week or two . sure, its annoying ... but nothing to worry over . people worry about a F that they got on a test 3days ago . wth ? it already happened . all you can do is study for the next test . whats done is done . worrying about clothes that will be out of style in a month, or 'pimpin your ride' so you can find girls who like you for all the wrong reasons . yummy lol . girls worrying about a guy that hasnt called ... so what ? i mean it may suck, but if he isnt putting in the effort, apparently he isnt for you . keep it pushin ! sheeeeeesh ;

life is all about perspective. what may seem like the craziest circumstance is not really big when looked at from a different angle . just a thought :)

so, have a nice day ... but thats up to you .