staple thy mouth .

i hope this gets into the right hands .

can anyone tell me why some women gossip like they do ? you know the kind . the ones who know everyone else's business : who's messing with who . who cheated on who . who's pregnant . who's having an abortion . any drama thats happening in the neighborhood , she is the first to know . She doesnt even wait for it to come to her. Instead, she's asking questions and being manipulative . she snoops in people's business to find out what the "scoop is" . Little does she know, if she keeps running her mouth, someone's gunna have to scoop her off the floor .

She has absolutely no loyalty to anyone . if you tell her about your financial problems, she's spray painting the side of the 405 freeway with your business . She does not understand the quality in silence and because of it, she'll probably end up alone. Most people say that gossipers are just people that do not have lives . I beg to differ . They have lives, their lives ...(however) are just extremely inadequate . their romantic lives are in disarray, their family life is in a mess and they would rather put other people's problems out into the world than recognize their own .

What's worse is the fact that she doesnt even wait for you to ask !! Instead, she's calling you ! all on your phone about somebody else's life and you dont even care .

If your listening out their gossiper, get a life . The fact that your life is validated by someone else's turmoil is pathetic . Instead of working on your own life, you hide from it and you patch up the wounds with other people's problems . Maybe it's your lack of compassion, or low self-esteem ? who can really say ? I just know that if this is you, take a good look in the mirror and re-evaluate . No man wants a girl who revolves their life around negativity . No man wants a woman who cant shut their mouth ... and if they do, theyre probably still too young & immature to know the difference .

Psalms 13 : A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret.

LEV 19:16 "'Do not go about spreading slander among your people. "'Do not
do anything that endangers your neighbor's life. I am the LORD.'

1 TIM 3:11 In the same way, their wives are to be women worthy of respect,
not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything.